Type casting

by illuminatingthebox

As I mentioned before, the secret sauce behind the Vin DiCarlo Pandora’s Box system is that it doesn’t treat all women the same. Instead, it classifies women into eight primary “types” and teaches you how to calibrate your game to fit each type of woman. The eight types are formed by combining the two extremes of the three minds lines. 2×2×2 = 8. Get it?

The types are defined as follows:

• The Playette is a Tester-Denier-Idealist.
• The Social Butterfly is a Tester-Justifier-Idealist.
• The Hopeful Romantic is an Investor-Denier-Idealist.
• The Cinderella is an Investor-Justifier-Idealist.
• The Private Dancer is a Tester-Denier-Realist.
• The Seductress is a Tester-Justifier-Realist.
• The Connoisseur is an Investor-Denier-Realist.
• The Modern Woman is an Investor-Justifier-Realist.

I don’t know who came up with these colorful terms, but they do make the types easy to remember once you get the core system down pat. It is critical to memorize the eight types because all the study material is divided along those lines. They are described in detail in the Pandora’s Box Ultimate Strategy Guide which comes with your free 14-day trial. The strategy guide covers the fundamentals: how to start a conversation with each type of woman, how to hold her interest, how to keep things going on a date, and, of course, how to hit all the right notes when you have sex with her.

Indeed, even though Vin DiCarlo claims that the goal of the Pandora’s Box system is “total devotion” rather than sex, you’ll find that sex plays a central role. In fact, sex is considered to be almost a prerequisite to total devotion. It is stated quite clearly in the core program that the Sex Line is the most important dimension because “sex is the reason why we all exist” — which I guess is true from a certain point of view. Now, if you’re one of those guys who sees every woman as a walking vagina, that rule will be music to the ears between your legs. Those who have more old-fashioned views on sex and intimacy, though, will need to find a way to filter and adapt the material you read, because there’s no escaping the sexual emphasis in Vin DiCarlo’s Pandora’s Box system. Every e-book and every audio file you encounter will talk about how getting the woman into bed is a normal and necessary step in the courtship process.

Nevertheless, even for the most prudish, there is enough useful information in the material to make it worthwhile. I have found myself constantly referring back to the strategy guide to understand what each type of woman I meet is looking for in a relationship, how to make her feel at ease, and how to get her to consider placing me outside the friend zone. When applied properly, the techniques do work. They aren’t done in a sleazy manner either, because they focus on comprehending the woman’s personality, rather than trying to list out a romance recipe of lines and moves which may or may not (usually do not) work. This approach may prove a challenge for guys who need the kind of step-by-step guidance you find in a set of furniture assembly instructions. However, the upside is that having a holistic view of female psychology makes it easy to incorporate the techniques into your own personality and calibrate naturally if things don’t go exactly according to plan.

You get access to the strategy guide immediately upon signing up, so even if you cancel after the 14-day trial, you will still have a valuable resource that will instantly help you understand, and thereby improve, your interactions with women. Yet, as always, there is a disconnect between theory and practice. The strategy guide just gives you the theory. You could certainly go out on your own and experiment with the implementation details to see what works in practice. But a wiser man would first seek added advice from actual women about what works and what doesn’t, thus sparing himself from repeating the failures of many men before him.

Most men, however, don’t have the luxury of knowing a wide variety of women who will sit down for hours to answer pointed questions about the good, the bad, and the ugly moments of their love life past and present, nor would these men know the right questions to ask unless they had previously served a stint as a host on 60 Minutes. That’s where the bulk of the Pandora’s Box system comes into play: the Video Interviews which I will discuss in my next post.